Today, I opened back my mail and I was checking out the email I received from my past lecturer and read them back. I don't get what she was writing about but when I read the email that I send to her then only I understand.
I can see people around me are being selfish. And they also lying to themselves. They think they're position right now is safe from the cruel world. They don't know how the world was. Competition is tough.
It all start from the beginning of time where your mom and dad had sex. The sperm that burst out from your dad's penis, goes to your mom's vagina when the have orgasm. (I know this is kinda private, so sorry). A million sperm swims off and trying to get to the ovaries and only one sperm can stick to the egg in the ovaries. (If I'm not mistaken). 'Life is a race'. I got this quote from the Bollywood movie named 3 I idiots.
Life is a race. If you don't run fast nor being careless, you'll left behind. But you can still run even thought you're far behind. So don't give up. People all around you is trying to compete with their friends. Why are you still here ? You should follow them compete each other. But my lecturer had taught me to compete with yourself not with others.
I have this classmate who had tell everyone around her that 'learn, learn together, but successful is individually'. I'm not sure if I had to agree with this quote nor not. Failure is success if we learn from it.
So appreciate all the good things that happen around you, when your friends had taught you this and that and life is too short. So enjoy it, forgive the past and do your best for the future. You've learn from the past so you will never make the same mistake again. Live your life with smiles and happiness. No need to be pissed of or depressed with someone's word.
But I'm different. I was grown in a family that don't speak words that are cruel or do things that is bad. We don't practice that. We forgive, we give love and we can't see things that is cruel. Again, I grown as a good person. My family is poor. My parents had taught me to be good. The religion of Islam makes it even better. I can't face people who talk or do bad things that might hurt someone's feeling. I don't ignore people because I know how they'd feel when I'm ignored. I don't shout / angry / depressed in front of people because I want to take a good care of my reputation and because I want to be a good example to others. I don't say word that only foolish egoistic people would say because because it might hurt their feelings like 'do I look like I care?' etc. I never break rules because I'm scared with the law that I had set to myself and the law of Allah.
Less is more. Talking to much might actually make people hate you. So I should stop now. And one last thing;
It's our nature. Human beings like success but they hate successful people.
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